Tuesday, 28 December 2010
Season of Pause
Our experience with the life and death of our daughter Bailey has not ended. It does not sit tied up in a nice, neat, and easily understood package. We are not who we were, nor are we who we will be. Heather and I continue to "sit" in a place of allowing and longing to be changed by this experience. We are acutely aware of our desperate need for God. There is an intermingled sense of profound sadness and of genuine worship for Jehovah Shammah (ever present one) in our hearts and in our home. We are taking an intentional season of pause with the hope that we will emerge healthy and whole, both as individuals and as a family. It is our prayer that this wound will heal into a scar that is a visible and visceral reminder of His faithfulness.
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Came to your blog to 'see' Bailey tonight. Missing her with you. It's so good to hear your words and know your hearts. You and your sweet daughter are not forgotten. She lives on in so many lives because of the things she taught us in her short life here. We love you from near and far....we're here....always. -the curries
ReplyDeleteI was thinking of Bailey today and looked at your blog and found your post. Heather, I loved seeing you a couple weeks ago and hope to see you again soon. To both of you, may you continue to feel the presence of Jehovah Shammah as you pause to remember your sweet Bailey. Love you!
ReplyDeletesitting with you in this season and the seasons to come.
ReplyDeletemuch love for you and your family.
ben and jaren
thinking of you all as you continue this journey of grief
ReplyDeleteMy daughter turned one - yesterday. I recalled your call to me in the hospital, which would have been one year ago today. That you could even pause to reach out to me that day - I wondered how you could possibly take the time to call me - that you could find it in your heart to think of someone other than your immediate family.
ReplyDeleteEvery day I wallow in my own struggles throwing everything off my plate that is periphery - struggling to keep my family together, to get through the day, to keep kids healthy and happy, to keep working, to provide for them - and yet I know that my struggles don't even begin to approach what you faced.
And yet..... you called.
I will always remember that day.
Still thinking of, praying for and remembering you and your family.
ReplyDeleteCame to see you and Bailey today. We use her bookmark for our children's bible and talk about the struggles kiddos can face with support from God. You and your family still inspire - taking time to pause, to reflect, to mourn, to just be quiet with God for a moment - so healthy and such good reminders for the rest of us. Thank you for continuing to share your journey. We love love love you.
ReplyDeleteA little punch, a kick, a roll
ReplyDeleteA heart beats steady
Then not at all
Life is gone, before too long
The rain begins to fall.
Time goes by, days go past
Years are spinning very fast
Wondering, waiting, asking why
Alone a silent lullaby
Never a day without a thought
Remembering what was real, and lost
Loved and missed, forever to be
An angel watching over me
-by Amanda Phillip
Today is both a day of celebration and sorrow. We celebrate a birth of 2 beautiful girls and yet are hearts are heavy that one is not here with us. Happy Birthday Alexis, we love you, and sweet Bailey, we miss you, you are in out hearts and our thoughts daily.
ReplyDeleteMatt and Heather,
ReplyDeleteWe are praying for your family. God brought you to our minds today, especially as we worshipped the Lord through the hearing of His Word. Our pastor preached on Psalm 46, and you came to mind as ones who have lived out your faith and have testified to God being your refuge, strength and very present help. May you realize the very nearness of His comfort today.
Blessings,
Jennifer and Eric Archambault