...bailey's story...


Our story is a story about a MIRACLE. It is not the kind of miracle that is so often shared in Christian circles. We have heard stories about untreatable cancer that disappeared and of a child that was never supposed to walk or talk and is now a healthy adult. These are often the kinds of stories people share with you when you are experiencing difficult circumstances. Stories about the TRAGEDY that was avoided or the near miss that is now in the rear view mirror of life. We value these types of stories and we CELEBRATE them!

Ours was not that kind of story. Our daughter Bailey Hope was born on February 20, 2009. She died on August 13, 2010. The eighteen months in between were horrible and heart wrenching as we experienced our worst fears coming true. We were not rescued FROM heartache and tragedy.

Our miracle was that we were joined IN this journey by friends and family that gave of themselves and by our GOD who held us in unexplainable ways. This is our story. We do not share it to garner pity. There are others who have similar stories. There are so many others who have more tragic stories.

We share our story because it is impossible to talk about our beautiful daughter, without talking about our beautiful God. We must talk about our daughter. We must talk about our God. It is the MIRACLE behind the MIRACLE.





Saturday 14 August 2010

From our arms to his.

Our sweet Bailey is finally free. Today is the first day she will not have to struggle or experience pain. For that we are so grateful.

28 comments:

  1. We praise God for Bailey's freedom. And pray to God that you feel some sense of peace.

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  2. Heaven gained a priceless jewel, He wins! I pray for peace and comfort for you. I love you all!

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  3. Shiva. (We're sitting with you.) May God give you everything you need to get through today...moment by moment.

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  4. Matt and Heather - my heart is heavy for you today. Praying that our God that has given you strength through this journey will give you the peace that only He can. Love and prayers to you all!

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  5. We are so sorry for your loss. We'll continue to pray that your family will remain as strong and as faithful as you have been through this journey until now. Sweet Bailey is FREE!

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  6. I'm free.
    Praise the Lord, I'm free.
    No longer bound.
    No more chains holding me.
    My soul is resting.
    It's just a blessing.
    Praise the Lord, hallelujah, I'm free.
    -Rev. Milton Brunson

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  7. our hearts are filled with joy and sorrow. while we are grieving for your loss, we are filled with delight that Bailey is now in the arms of God. we will continue to pray for peace and strength while you continue your journey!
    love to you all - kim and chris

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  8. Our hearts go out to all of you in this loss but what comfort to know that she is now in the arms of Jesus alive & healthy. We lift you in prayer and we know that you will draw your strength through our Lord & Saviour. God Bless!

    Ken Jr. & Deb Lovell

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  9. I've been singing this song all morning, thinking of you, and i had to share it. You know me, I always have song lyrics to share! They say music soothes the savage beast, but I think it can also soothe the broken heart.
    There's a peace I've come to know,
    though my heart and flesh may fail.
    There's an anchor for my soul,
    I can say, "it is well."
    Jesus has overcome, and the grave is overwhelmed,
    The victory is won, he is risen from the dead.
    And I will rise, when he calls my name.
    No more sorrow, no more pain.
    I will rise on eagle's wings
    before my God, fall on my knees, and rise.
    Chris Tomlin

    Love you so much more than words can ever say.

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  10. Our hearts are heavy as we know this day brings much sorrow. Praying for you to feel carried by His strength and the love of those around you. I picture Bailey renewed and smiling in heaven now. Love you.

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  11. Crying new and different tears for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be praying for you and your families.

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  12. So sad for you but so thankful her pain is over. Is your address public? Would love to send you a little something.

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  13. I'm sorry for the loss that you feel, but happy for the freedom Bailey has gained. You're in my thoughts and prayers as always.

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  14. We are filled with hope today knowing that death has not won. Precious Bailey has been healed. She is safe in the arms of Jesus. We pray that Christ will sustain you as you grieve her passing. She was so blessed to have known such brave and unconditional love from you. You both have taught us so much about God's faithfulness. What an incredible reunion you will have one day....

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  15. Celebrating Bailey's healing and freedom - praying for your peace and strength. Thank you for sharing this journey with us. Her life has touched many.

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  16. aching with you, as I know God is lamenting with you. may His peace and hope be made tangible to you...

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  17. Especially today, I'm praying this for you Heather, Matt, McKenzie, Carter & Lexi..."And the peace of God WHICH TRANSCENDS ALL UNDERSTANDING will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Crying with you, praying for you...

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  18. I don't know you, but I have been reading your blog for months because it was shared on Facebook by many of my friends from Blythefield. I am so uplifted by your faith and by your vulnerability. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I trust that our Lord and Savior will be your ultimate comforter. May His hands be felt in a very real way today. Praise the Lord for He is in control. May he cradle your sweet baby until you can do it again.

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  19. I just got home from a trip. I can't imagine your pain and your relief as well. I pray for peace for you all. My heavy heart is thinking and praying for you.

    Leslie

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  20. "If every tear we shed for you became a star above; you'd stroll in Angel's garden, lit by everlasting love" Author Unknown. Our prayers our with you all.
    Love
    Kevin and Stephanie Gaynor

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  21. You don't know me but I have been praying for you all. May you feel His peace which passes all understanding.

    Sorrowing with you,
    Amy
    (Bethany Courson's sister)

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  22. Praying for you and your family! Just know that she is free and with Jesus. Your faith has been a awesome message to all around you.
    Love the Keller family!

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  23. Thinking of you throughout this difficult time.

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  24. It's been almost two days now. Two days of freedom for precious Bo. Two days that Jesus gets to see her smile. Two days that the angels get to see her perseverant personality at angel school.
    I pray that your days are filled with love and family and friends; and the nights are filled with dreams watching your daughter dancing with Jesus.

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  25. Grieving and grateful with you. We will continue lifting your dear family in prayer in the moments, days, months ahead.
    The Vredevoogds

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  26. Continuing to pray for your entire family.

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  27. We left on vacation on August 13th, but I kept praying. We returned tonight (30th), and I will keep praying. I am so sorry that I wasn't here to support you in person, but I will keep praying. Your sweet Bailey is up there with Jesus,the angels, and a man I knew and loved. They are waiting for us when it is our time to have their joy.

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